tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post2628335867346908839..comments2023-07-10T19:11:22.640+09:00Comments on 彩り : Irodori: Time to heal...and move on!Ayahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17374811695943924369noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-24181597044346481332008-08-09T12:50:00.000+09:002008-08-09T12:50:00.000+09:00Aya--I'm glad you got there.AdairAya--I'm glad you got there.<BR/><BR/>AdairAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-68337811803417014152008-07-15T01:10:00.000+09:002008-07-15T01:10:00.000+09:00this post just made me really happy. i just sighed...this post just made me really happy. i just sighed with relief. thanks for sharing. i'm really happy for you!yummy411https://www.blogger.com/profile/12969641019473417770noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-1063335508154801242008-07-03T23:06:00.000+09:002008-07-03T23:06:00.000+09:00Dear Friends,Thank you for reading...and thank you...Dear Friends,<BR/><BR/>Thank you for reading...and thank you for not judging. I appreciate everyone's thoughts and kind words of encouragement. You ladies really put a smile on my face. I feel like if I knew all of you personally, we'd all get along GREAT. Although never my intent, it makes me happy knowing that I've been able to touch your hearts. If you don't have a good relationship with your mother or father, I hope that all of you can one day get to that 'happy place'. And when you do, I hope you'll share your thoughts with me :)<BR/><BR/>Thank you, I love you all.Ayahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17374811695943924369noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-73951182382339218012008-07-03T02:23:00.000+09:002008-07-03T02:23:00.000+09:00Aya, That is so good to hear about you and your mo...Aya, That is so good to hear about you and your mom. Life traumas can either make or break a family. And I'm glad that this turned out ok for you and your mom. It's good to have your mom around. I too was the same way with my mom when I was growing up. I am her only daughter and we did not get along at all. We would fight all the time! Until I had my oldest son. After that it was like we were best friends. I needed her help on how to be a mother and then I also realized what it's like to be a mother. And all the things I took for granted I now realized was wrong. I love my mom and even though there are times she does get on my nerves I would be devastated if I ever lost her.<BR/><BR/>Thank you for sharing this!Jaclyn Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01483476329670587426noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-78120699289298395592008-07-01T00:11:00.000+09:002008-07-01T00:11:00.000+09:00That how it was with my mom as well..we would cons...That how it was with my mom as well..we would constantly butt heads...im soo stubborn and my moms just a worry wort...i had to move out...so at age 17 i was out and living and working on my own...i have grown to be an acomplished woman at that...now i see my mother most often i tell her that i love her...because when i sit down and think she's irreplaceable...and it brings a tear to my eye that your finally finding a happy medium esp. w/ your mom...i think that's pretty awesome aya...XPPINKXXhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05247541431276487447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-81586813627766496812008-06-30T19:15:00.000+09:002008-06-30T19:15:00.000+09:00Glad to hear that you are re-bonding with your mot...Glad to hear that you are re-bonding with your mother and are happy! You've talked about difficult things happening in your past, and I can only imagine how difficult it was for you and your family to cope with those events.nahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02599095353183109284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-41824808015465382792008-06-29T23:29:00.000+09:002008-06-29T23:29:00.000+09:00Aya'chan, I am glad you've found this "place". Wi...Aya'chan, I am glad you've found this "place". Without preachin'... I've found that new memories that fill up painful times make it easier to deal, I hope you and your Mother will make many happy memories.Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09174089559763358514noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-12938520770484799572008-06-29T02:51:00.000+09:002008-06-29T02:51:00.000+09:00I'm glad the relationship with your mother is gett...I'm glad the relationship with your mother is getting better. One of the hardest thing in the world is relationships with people, family and friends.Ahleessahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12197712138269330386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-49480653835150676422008-06-29T01:40:00.000+09:002008-06-29T01:40:00.000+09:00Glad she's in your life now... must be hard for yo...Glad she's in your life now... must be hard for you, hugs!Parhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05386692254721228712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-34537212342168838072008-06-28T19:02:00.000+09:002008-06-28T19:02:00.000+09:00I can only imagine the pain you and your mom went ...I can only imagine the pain you and your mom went through these two years. Though I'm very familiar with the feeling of betrayal by one's own mother. That's why I'm really happy that you two are rebuilding your relationship now. <BR/><BR/>You know I can never be open about personal topics like these on my own blog.. but reading entries like these is really touching.. in one way or another, it touches others and makes them reflect in their own situation. ^_^ Thanks..I'm not exactly sure why I'm thanking you.. but maybe thanks for opening your heart here.jinghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15279846388584604113noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-59705117315968841262008-06-28T10:04:00.000+09:002008-06-28T10:04:00.000+09:00Aya:I swear, we are so much alike! Reading your po...Aya:<BR/>I swear, we are so much alike! Reading your post is so familar...<BR/>I am glad that you are communicating with your mom. It sounds like both of you are in a different place now. Sometimes you need to be right with yourself before you can be right with anyone else INCLUDING your family.<BR/>It does my heart good to read this and to know that there is hope for my mother and I.<BR/>I hope you stay in that happy place for a long time :)Tammy Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00614023281533484668noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-81019296851054671992008-06-28T08:59:00.000+09:002008-06-28T08:59:00.000+09:00Awww your post made me tear up - first from the fi...Awww your post made me tear up - first from the fight between you and your mom, then from the joy of you and your mom finding yourselves back. I'm a sucker for family, I could never ever leave my parents. I'm so happy for you!fuzkittiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02193348848035538127noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6019496510686704723.post-58897420667098311232008-06-28T07:36:00.000+09:002008-06-28T07:36:00.000+09:00Aya, it's really nice to hear that you and your mo...Aya, it's really nice to hear that you and your mother are re-bonding- i'm happy for you! you sounds truly happy :)♡ Nic Nic ♡https://www.blogger.com/profile/16070137301920825252noreply@blogger.com